arXiv Computation and Language By Sebastian Cochinescu

Love for Believable AI: Artificial Partiality and Relationship Persistence as an Engineerable Stance

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The paper investigates a behavioral mechanism for artificial partiality in conversational agents, defining partiality as caring (allocation of surplus interaction above a guaranteed floor) and particularity (per-user state estimates from relationship history). It implements these as a persistence layer over an open-weight base model and evaluates them in constructed multi-session relationships, finding that the mechanism reproduces the ordinal shape of a specified curve but not its magnitude, and that a guarded revision satisfies probe-quality equivalence on a calibrated battery but not on a second battery. The authors note that the mechanism is a candidate for future perception studies rather than evidence that users perceive love, and they outline ethical constraints such as a stranger-treatment floor, bounded surplus, disclosure, and de-intensification.

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